“Girls just wanna have fun”
But stay safe too!
New ethical belt range aims to improve women’s safety, in a stylish and innovative way

Designer Josy Spooner (30) explains what inspired her to create the JosyFlo range:
My friends and I spent our late teens and early 20’s as real party animals. We would spend every weekend out at clubs, bars and parties, generally having a great time but often one or all of us would end up having one too many to drink and would have to be carried home.
We always tried to stay aware of where each other were, never letting a friend go home with a strange man that they had just met. The rule was to get their phone number and if you still felt good about him the next day then you could arrange to meet up with him. If you didn’t remember much about him, well… it was a good thing that you hadn’t woken up in his bed!

There were a few occasions where one or other of us had their drink spiked. It happened to me once, but I wasn’t aware of what had happened until hours later when I came to at a friend’s house. Confused and blurry headed I panicked about where we were. A friend of mine explained that I had been speaking to a guy in a bar and that all of a sudden I had become far more intoxicated than usual. Apparently the man had been trying to persuade me to come to his house for a swim in his hot tub and tried to convince my friend that this is what we had arranged to do. Thankfully she saw straight through him and told him where to go!
We were lucky that these incidents were few and far between, and didn’t mar the fun that we had together. However there was one problem that we encountered time and time again. Looking after our personal possessions!
Dancing round your handbags is all well and good….until everyone decides to wander off at the same time. Leaving your bags and coats on chairs round the table works well…. Until you all get up to greet friends and leave everything unattended!

We all know a story about having a bag stolen from club or bar. It’s all too easy to forget about your personal possessions until its too late. But the reality is that it leaves you very vulnerable when your out late and suddenly find yourself high and dry with no money for a cab or no phone to call home! One incident springs to mind, which made me change how I behaved when I went out:
“ I had been out at a gig with my friend Laura. She had a habit of loosing her phone and ATM card so we had put all of her valuables into my handbag. We had a great night, dancing, meeting new people and enjoying the bands. At about 1am I started to feel really dizzy and decided to sit down. I put my bag and drink on the floor beside me and slumped against the wall. Laura started to get concerned about me and went off to the bar to get a glass of water. Whilst she was gone I started to feel worse and closing my eyes put my head between my knees. By the time she got back my handbag had disappeared. It had only taken a minute or two but now we were stuck: No money, no phone, and no house keys. By this time the gig was over and the queue for the coats snaked back across the club. Because the cloakroom tickets were in the bag we had to wait right until the end before claiming our possessions. By this time there were few people around and we were starting to feel rather vulnerable.
Without our phones we were unable to call anyone to collect us. The only number that I knew off by heart was my fathers and he was away on business. Laura’s mum had moved home recently and Laura hadn’t memorized the new number yet. Foolishly we wandered out of the club and down the street still unsure of what we would do. We decided that we would hail a black cab to Laura’s parents house, wake her mum and ask her to pay for the cab. Unfortunately for us there were very few taxis around and in the next hour every cab that passed us was occupied. We had been wandering down the street hoping that we would be able to flag one down but found we had headed out of town and the area was looking more and more suburban by the minute By the time the Ford escort pulled up we were cold, fed up and starting to fee a bit scared.

The driver of the car wound down the window and asked us if we needed a cab. His car was old and dilapidated and it didn’t look like a real taxi. But he was the only person around and against my better judgment we decided to fix a price with him and get in the car.
As we drove home my heart was beating like a hammer in my chest, feeling like a complete fool for taking this guy up on a lift. Who was he??? How did we know we would get home safe?? I tried to memorize his face and the details of the car in case I needed to identify him. Thoughts whirled round and round in my head of horror stories about girls getting raped, robbed…or worse. Laura seemed to be having second thoughts too and was engaging the driver in loud conversation about her father being a policeman, assumedly in an attempt stop him from attacking us.
Very luckily our fears were unfounded. The driver duly drove us to Laura’s house where a very worried mum paid the driver and thanked him for looking after us.
Although in the end we suffered no more than having to replace our valuables the experience showed us just how easy it is to be suddenly left in a very vulnerable position. We were lucky that the driver was just looking for some quick cash. Drunk women out alone at night make a very easy target for thieves, rapists or others looking to do harm. Once we have had a few to drink we start to feel invincible and this can lead us to make some very rash decisions.

I feel very happy that Laura and I were together as I wouldn’t want to have done that on my own. I have since heard all manner of stories about women drunkenly putting themselves in compromising positions after loosing their bags, wallets, phones etc. One terrifying story details a man raping a girl after using her driving license to find out her address and then letting himself in with her keys! When your guard is down and your all alone you may end up in a situation where you have to trust someone that you shouldn’t. Don’t let that happen to you! Prepare yourself before you go out and follow the tips below for safe partying. If you look after yourself then you can let your hair down without falling victim to crime.

I designed the JosyFlo range to help prevent incidents like the one detailed above. Loosing a handbag is tiresome, but the situation that it leaves you in is more worrying. Phones, cards and make up can all be replaced so getting home safely is the most important thing that you can do.

Each high quality JosyFlo belt is designed in a way to make it fashionable and stylish yet useful and functional. Each belt contains a hidden pocket or 2 where the wearer can put their valuables, phone, money, ATM card, house key or whatever they want.
All our belts are made at a Fair Trade registered production in Bhopal, India. We endeavor to provide sustainable, fair employment for the
producers of JosyFlo belts. We hope to promote awareness of ethical trade and utilize ethical, sustainable methods wherever possible.

Wearing a pocket belt allows you the freedom of taking a bag or not.
For those of you who prefer to travel light this will be a godsend as you can literally ditch the handbag and go totally hands free!
If you still love to take a bag, as many of us do, make sure that you use your belt to its full potential! Team it with your favourite outfit but make sure you always ensure that you have an ATM card, your house key and some money in one of your pockets so that if the worst happens you can at least get home.

Check out the tips below for some ideas about keeping safe and having a great night worry free:
o Before you leave the house make sure you have cash or a card hidden away in your JosyFlo belt for emergencies.
o Memorize a loved one’s number who can be contacted in an emergency. Alternatively write it on a piece of paper and put it in your JosyFlo belt
o Don’t rely on other people to look after you and your possessions. Take responsibility for your own safety as anything could happen and you need to be prepared.
o Keep your drink in your hand and watch them if you put them down to prevent the chance of them being spiked.
o Be wary of taking cigarettes from people. These too can be spiked with date rape drugs
o If you do have coats and bags with you don’t just abandon them to go off and dance/get a drink. For added safety put them in the cloakroom if available or ensure one person stays with the valuables at all times.
o If you have your bag/valuables stolen report it to the venue staff or police immediately
o In a large club or venue its easy to loose your friends so arrange a meeting place for if you get separated
o Don’t leave the venue alone. Ask the staff to call you a licensed taxi and make sure it’s the right one before you get into it
o Never take unlicensed taxis. There are no guarantees and the driver may be uninsured, without a license or worse.
o If you have to walk alone at night, stick to well lit streets where possible. Walk with your head held high and with a purpose. Don’t loose your sense of hearing by listening to loud music. You need to be alert and aware. If you do encounter someone or feel that someone is following you stop and allow them to pass. Looking them full in the face with a strong and determined expression should deter any potential attackers. They are looking to prey on scared and vulnerable victims so will be put off by the fact that you are aware of them and that you could identify them if need be.
o If somebody contacts you saying that they have found your bag be very wary about inviting them to your home or collecting it from a private business or address. If you do arrange to meet them do so in a busy, public place and ideally take a male friend along with you. Alternatively the most sensible option would be to ask them to hand it into their local police station.
So what are you waiting for girls?
Grab the essentials, pop them in your belt and have some fun!
For more information about JosyFlo belts see www.josyflo.com
For more information about staying safe when you’re out and about see http://www.thesite.org/homelawandmoney/law/staysafe/safetyforwomen
http://www.suzylamplugh.org/personal-safety/personal-safety-tips/